You Play a Significant Role

As a man, you have a unique opportunity to come alongside your partner during this time. While she’s the one who is pregnant, the unexpected nature of the situation likely threw you both for a loop.

It’s natural to have fears and concerns about what’s next. Perhaps you’re wondering how involved you should be, what you should say, and if support is available for you, too.

Remember that your partner is likely worried about whether you’ll support her. Even when you have a strong foundation, the news of this pregnancy can make her feel that life is uncertain.

At this time, take a deep breath. Together, you can learn what’s needed to make a thoughtful decision, weigh your options, and reassure each other that this support is essential.

Processing the News

Feeling worried or confused is understandable when you learn of the pregnancy. After all, this might have been the last thing on your mind.

Know that your feelings are valid. You’ll want to take time to process the news independently, without distractions or outside opinions. When you’re ready, you can revisit the situation with your partner and develop a plan for moving forward.

You and your partner need each other right now; that connection will make all the difference.

Your Next Steps

The Life Center provides options consultations, life coaching support, and more for men. As your partner confirms her pregnancy, you can weigh different options, ensure she feels supported, and speak to a trusted support team member about your situation.

You matter, too, and you’ll find the help you need.

We also offer free parenting education, counseling, and more to equip you with the skills to create a bright future. Move forward confidently as our support team will help and learn the foundational elements of being a successful, engaged parent.

You are not alone. We believe in your abilities and are looking forward to meeting you. Make a confidential appointment today to learn how we can help.